Monday, January 25, 2010

Sayings...

Sayings~

The thought finds the words - Robert Frost

The reason people find it so hard to be happy is that they always see the past better than it was, the present worse than it is and the future less than it will be - Marcel Pagnol

... and so the day ended peacefully because they were all together.

I've always had a very comfortable relationship with #2 pencils.

There is no enlightenment outside of daily life ~ Thich Nhat Hanh

It is impossible to walk rapidly and be unhappy - Mother Teresa

One ought, every day at least,
To hear a little song,
read a good poem,
see a fine picture
and if it were possible
to speak a few reasonable words.
(or you won't find it) a creativity tool based on the ancient wisdom of Heraclitus by Roger von Oech, author of A Whack on the Side of the Head.

Heraclitus was an ancient Greek philosopher that was famous for his brilliant and provocative sayings.

The creative insights of Heraclitus:
1 The cosmos speaks in patterns
2 Expect the unexpected, or you wont find it
3 Everything flows
4 You cant step in the same river twice
5 That which opposes produces a benefit
6 A wonderful harmony is created when we join together the seemingly unconnected
7 If all things turned to smoke, the nose would become the discerning organ
8 The Sun will not exceed its limits, because the avenging Furies, ministers of Justice, would find out
9 Lovers of wisdom must open their minds to very many things
10 I searched into myself
11 Knowing many things doesn't teach insight
12 Many fail to grasp whats right in the palm of their hands
13 When there's no sun, we can see the evening stars
14 The most beautiful order is a heap of sweepings piled up at random
15 Things love to conceal their true nature
16 Those who approach life like a child playing a game, moving and pushing pieces, possess the power of kings
17 Sea water is both pure and polluted: for fish it is drinkable and life-giving: for humans undrinkable and destructive
18 On a circle, an end point can also be a beginning point
19 It is disease that makes health pleasant, hunger that makes fullness good, and weariness that makes rest sweet.
20 Dogs bark at what they don't understand
21 The doctor inflicts pain to cure suffering
22 The way up and the way down are one and the same
23 All things rest by changing
24 The barley-wine drink falls apart unless it is stirred
25 While we're awake, we share one universe, but in sleep we are each turn away to a world of our own
26 Donkeys prefer garbage to gold
27 Every walking animal is driven to its purpose with a whack
28 There is a greater need to extinguish arrogance than a blazing fire
29 Your character is your destiny
30 The sun is new each day

Sunday, January 24, 2010

Things that make me HAPPY

I love- Christ, Michael, rain, truth, happy days, chocolate, ferns & succulents, making lists,going to auctions, old things, deep thoughts, photos, wooden bowls, #3, scarves, family, peppermint, the hunt, green & blue, birds & books

Monday, November 16, 2009

It is what it is

Yep! It is!

when life is good

My life is good! I love my family, my house, my church. These things define who i am. I am comfortable in my own skin. I care about people. I care about their health, their welfare and their ability to love others. I feel that i was put here to care about people. My family means the world to me. I love God and all the good things I do through him. I have husband that loves me no matter what i do. He loves ME. Its amazing, He makes me feel loved. Just the little things he does... the smile, the pat on the ass, the reassuring hug and a rub on the shoulder, the way he respects me. Just the way he looks at me makes me feel loved. I couldn't ask for anything more satisfying than his love for me.

He teaches our kids the importance of respect for others and to care for their wellness.I love that we have 3 incredible boys that fill our lives. I love them all!
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Saturday, November 14, 2009

Mother Teresa

I'm reading a book called LOVE by Mother Teresa. It's Saturday night, I was browsing at Borders and I picked it up just for the heck of it. Discovered it is very enlightening. Mother Teresa says that intense love does not measure - it just gives. How profound. When we love someone unconditionally, we just love. No strings attached to our love, it just is.

"A smile is just the beginning of love. Do not allow yourself to be disheartened by any failure as long as you have done your best. Joy is love -- a joyful heart is the normal result of a heart burning with love, for she gives most who gives with joy."

Give love with all your heart!

Saturday, November 07, 2009

Gratitude

I am so grateful for these things in my life. I love to be in the arms of my husband. ~ I love sitting at my parents kitchen table with all our family around and talking and laughing. • I love hammocks. I love silently browsing the aisles of Borders books.• I love libraries and the feel of books. I love wandering through the thrift stores seeing what i can make out of my finds. ~I love finding something special in the thrift stores. • I love anywhere that involves good friends. I love laughing, good food and drink. I love music & movies.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Food for Thought

We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; unevenly. We grow partially. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present, and future mingle and pull us backward, forward, or fix us in the present. We are made up of layers, cells, constellations.

~ Anais Nin

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Words to live by

Keeping it simple and living life. These resonate in my mind. They are what i strive for.

Simply put... family, friends, love.

I have all three. I love my family with all my heart. The love of my life makes me happy. I have loving children that are a joy. I have parents, sister and brothers that fulfill my longing for family. I am happy!

* * *

I believe these words were written by Robert Louis Stevenson. There is something in them for all of us:

Make up your mind to be happy.
Learn to find pleasure in simple things.

Make the best of circumstances. No one has everything and everyone has something of sorrow.

Don't take yourself too seriously.

Don't let criticism worry you. You can't please everybody.

Don't let your neighbors set your standards; be yourself.

Do things you enjoy doing but stay out of debt.

Don't borrow trouble. Imaginary things are harder to bear than actual ones.

Since hate poisons the soul, do not cherish enmities and grudges. Avoid people who make you unhappy.

Have many interests. If you can't travel, read about places.

Don't hold post-mortems or spend time brooding over sorrows and mistakes.

Do what you can for those less fortunate than yourself.

Keep busy at something. A very busy person never has time to be unhappy.
I believe they were written by Robert Louis Stevenson. There is something in them for all of us:
Make up your mind to be happy.
Learn to find pleasure in simple things.

Make the best of circumstances. No one has everything and everyone has something of sorrow.

Don't take yourself too seriously.

Don't let criticism worry you. You can't please everybody.

Don't let your neighbors set your standards; be yourself.

Do things you enjoy doing but stay out of debt.

Don't borrow trouble. Imaginary things are harder to bear than actual ones.

Since hate poisons the soul, do not cherish enmities and grudges. Avoid people who make you unhappy.

Have many interests. If you can't travel, read about places.

Don't hold post-mortems or spend time brooding over sorrows and mistakes.

Do what you can for those less fortunate than yourself.

Keep busy at something. A very busy person never has time to be unhappy.

Friday, October 09, 2009

Things will turn out ok

The best advice was from myself: There's not one right way to do things. The people who are the most judgmental are the ones who aren't comfortable with the choices they've made. I've come to learn this, and it makes me a less judgmental person on a day-to-day basis. And I like that. Even my friends have a big expanse of views.

Our guilt comes from inflated expectations. Every day, at least in our own heads, we fall short of the goals that we've set for ourselves. And that makes us feel bad. Each day we wake up, run around all day, & then go to sleep with an endless litany of shouldas, wouldas, couldas, and have-to's. As a result we live in our shortcomings, in a state of constant regret. So... do what we do and keep up the best we can and stop regretting. My house is in an ok order and thats all there is to it.

Tuesday, October 06, 2009

The Happiness Project

This is from The Happiness-Project. I just found it and was interested in what was being said. Good stuff!
Twelve Personal Commandments

* Be Gretchen. (Be Yourself)
* Let it go.
* Act the way I want to feel.
* Do it now.
* Be polite and be fair.
* Enjoy the process.
* Spend out.
* Identify the problem.
* Lighten up.
* Do what ought to be done.
* No calculation.
* There is only love.

Secret to Happiness? Don't Get Organized./
I’m working on my Happiness Project, and you could have one, too! Everyone’s project will look different, but it’s the rare person who can’t benefit. Join in -- no need to catch up, just jump in right now. Each Friday’s post will help you think about your own happiness project.

One of my favorite things to do is to help my friends clear their clutter. It’s less emotionally taxing than clearing my own clutter, plus I don’t have any delicious, horrible piles left to tackle (okay, maybe I do have one messy pile of shirts in my closet). As a consequence, I’ve seen a lot of clutter and heard lots of people talk about their thoughts about clutter. And I’ve reached an important conclusion:

Don’t get organized./
When you’re facing a desk swamped in papers, or a closet bursting with clothes, or counter-tops littered with piles of random objects, don’t say to yourself, “I need to get organized.” Your first instinct should be to get rid of stuff. If you don’t keep it, you don’t have to organize it.

A huge amount of clutter is the result of keeping things you don’t use. “Well, I don’t have that problem,” you might think. “Why would I bother to keep something I don’t use?” But it’s easier than you think for this stuff to accumulate.

In fact, there are a surprising number of reasons to hang on to something you don’t use. Maybe you used this object in the past, and it has sentimental value – your ten-year-old’s old sippy cup. Maybe you wish you used this object, even though you never do – a set of hand-weights. Maybe you want to pretend you live a life where this object would be useful – linen cocktail napkins. Maybe you’ve never used this thing, and you feel guilty about having wasted the money buying it – a bottle of decoupage glue. (All items that I held onto for years, without using, by the way.)

It can be painful to admit that you aren’t going to use certain possessions, but all that junk just gets in your way. Be honest with yourself.

When I’m helping people clear clutter, they often say, “I refuse to give that up! It’s got too much sentimental value to throw away.” I’m a big believer in keeping things for sentimental reasons, but it helps to admit that that’s what you’re doing and to act accordingly.

For example, a friend was keeping a huge pile of t-shirts she loved in college, but no longer wore. She wanted to buy a special set of plastic shelves to put in her closet to organize them.

Instead, I asked her, “Do you need to keep all these t-shirts, or can you pick a few to jog your memory?” With some coaxing, she got rid of most of them. Once she was down to two t-shirts, I asked her, “Do you actually wear these t-shirts?” She didn’t, so we moved them out of the precious real estate of her closet and stuck them on the top shelf of little-used closet.

People also say, “No, I’ve never used that, but maybe I will! It might come in handy!” Maybe it will – or maybe it won’t. Ask yourself: how easy would it be to replace this item? Have I ever used it? What else in my life would have to change for me to use this?

For example, my sister had huge amounts of paper clutter, and when we started going through it, I saw that she was hanging on to all sorts of statements and receipts. She wanted to buy a file box to file it all away neatly, but I disagreed. “You should just throw these papers away,” I said, “why do you them at all?” “Maybe I’ll need them,” she objected. But she’d never needed them in the past, and it wouldn’t have been hard to get copies, if she would ever need them. So we tossed all of it. Much easier than organizing it!

No surprise, I’ve noticed that it’s the people with the worst clutter problems who have the instinct to run to a store and buy complicated hangers, drawer compartments, etc. I love and use that stuff, too, but now I never let myself buy an item until it’s absolutely clear that it will help me put objects in order that are truly necessary – rather than act as a crutch to move clutter around or to jam more clutter into place.

So the next time you have the urge to get organized, and especially if you feel tempted to buy organizing doodads, first push yourself to throw away or give away the things you don’t actually use. (Here are 27 bonus tips for keeping your house in order.) You may find yourself left with nothing to organize.

Have you ever realized that you’ve been hanging on to something that you didn’t use? Why were you keeping it?

Eighteen Tips that Aren't, It Turns Out, From a Churchyard.

Graveyard

I was over at a friend’s house – for a meeting of one of my two children’s literature reading groups, in fact – where I saw her framed copy of “Desiderata.” (“Desiderata” is a Latin word meaning “things to be desired.”) I’d seen it before, but I’d never read more than the first few lines, and I was struck by the soundness of the suggestions.

I always thought Desiderata was an inscription in an old churchyard, but it was actually written by Max Ehrmann in 1927. This bit of information detracts from its mystique somewhat, but it's still an interesting list.

1. Go placidly amid the noise and haste and remember what peace there may be in silence.
2. As far as possible without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.
3. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.
4. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; for they are vexations to the spirit.
5. If you compare yourself with others you may become bitter or vain, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
6. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
7. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
8. Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery; but let this not blind you to what virtue there is.
9. Be yourself. [There it is, yet again, my First Commandment: Be Gretchen]
10. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.
11. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
12. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune, but do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
13. Beyond a wholesome discipline be gentle with yourself.
14. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here, and whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
15. Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be.
16. And whatever your labours and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, be at peace with your soul. With all its shame, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.
17. Be cheerful.
18. Strive to be happy.

My favorite is #18. You can’t always be happy, but you can strive to be happy. And it's not selfish to strive to be happy -- that's Happiness Myth No. 10. Remember the Second Splendid Truth!

Speaking of inscriptions found (or not) in churchyards, here’s my own favorite gravestone inscription:

Remember, friends, as you pass by,
As you are now so once was I.
As I am now, so you must be.
Prepare yourself to follow me.

Which item do you find most important in your own life?

I like no 18 too.
As is pointed out, somethings are "Choices"
Happiness is something we can choose and practice.
Same goes for other traits we want to cultivate,
Gentleness, Good Humor, Humility...
the list could be very long,
thats great stuff GR!

Monday, October 05, 2009

Be Nice

I have decided to start de-cluttering my stuff. Already, I have cleaned out my desk area, a few boxes of old files and miscellaneous meandering notebooks. I was starting to KEEP everything that was interesting to me, and it was starting to crowd my living areas. On to being more fulfilled with less!!!

Upon my gathering of misc. meanderings and piles of pages ripped out of catalogs, I found a clip of a website about being NICE! Pretty cool! Since so much of our world revolves around sick, despicable lieing, corrupt, utterly nasty people that have no morals or common sense.

www.operationnice.com

Check it out. Be nice to someone today.
:-)

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Government Health Care

Provided by - http://www.newsweek.com/id/215301/page/1

George F. Will

 

Mitch McConnell Smiled?

The President is CPR for the GOP.

Mitch McConnell, the taciturn Kentuckian who leads Senate Republicans, usually resembles Samuel Beckett's character Watt, who "had never smiled, but thought he knew how it was done." Last week, however, careful observers detected a trace of a hint of a shadow of a smile. Congressional Democrats were still at daggers drawn with one another, and the president's rhetoric was becoming CPR for the Republican Party.
On the 233rd day of his presidency, Barack Obama grabbed the country's lapels for the 263rd time—that was, as of last Wednesday, the count of his speeches, press conferences, town halls, interviews, and other public remarks. His speech to Congress was the 122nd time he had publicly discussed health care. Just 14 hours would pass before the 123rd, on Thursday morning. His incessant talking cannot combat what it has caused: An increasing number of Americans do not believe that he believes what he says.
He says America's health-care system is going to wrack and ruin and requires root-and-branch reform—but that if you like your health care (as a large majority of Americans do), nothing will change for you. His slippery new formulation is that nothing in his plan will "require" anyone to change coverage. He used to say, "If you like your health-care plan, you'll be able to keep your health-care plan, period." He had to stop saying that because various disinterested analysts agree that his plan will give many employers incentives to stop providing coverage for employees.
He deplores "scare tactics" but says that unless he gets his way, people will die. He praises temperate discourse but says many of his opponents are liars. He says Medicare is an exemplary program that validates government's prowess at running health systems. But he also says Medicare is unsustainable and going broke, and that he will pay for much of his reforms by eliminating the hundreds of billions of dollars of waste and fraud in this paragon of a program, and in Medicaid. He says Congress will cut Medicare (it will not) by $500 billion—without affecting benefits.
He says the nation's economic health depends on controlling health-care costs. Yet so important is the trial bar in financing the Democratic Party, he says not a syllable in significant and specific support of tort reforms that could save hundreds of billions of dollars by reducing "defensive medicine" intended to protect not patients from illnesses but doctors from lawyers. He has said he will not add a dime to the deficit when bringing 47 million people into government-guaranteed health care. But Wednesday night, 17 million went missing: "There are now more than 30 million American citizens who cannot get coverage." Almost 10 million of the uninsured are not citizens, and most of them are illegal immigrants. Presumably the other 7 million could get insurance but chose not to. Democrats propose fines to eliminate that choice. He suggests health-insurance companies are making excessive profits. But since 1996, profits of the six such companies in the S&P 500 have been below the 500's average. He says a "public option"—a government insurance program—would not be subsidized to enable it to compete unfairly with private insurers. (The post office and the government's transportation -"public option," Amtrak, devour subsidies.) He says the public option is vital for keeping health insurers "honest"—but that it is only a wee "sliver" of reform. About that, Nancy Pelosi -disagrees.
She is liberalism's Dolores Ibárruri, a.k.a. La Pasionaria—the Passion Flower. An anti-Franco orator during the Spanish Civil War, Ibárruri gave the Loyalists their battle cry, "¡Nopasarán!"—"They shall not pass!" Franco's forces did pass, but Pelosi has vowed that a reform plan lacking a public option shall not pass the House. But Montana Sen. Max Baucus, chairman of the Finance Committee, says a public option cannot pass the Senate.
 McConnell of the Mona Lisa smile says Congress will pass something because Obama will sign anything. McConnell notes, however, that never in his 25 Senate years have Republicans polled close to Democrats when the question is: Which party do you trust most to deal with health care? Until now. Last week's polling: Democratic Party, 41; Republican Party, 39—a statistical dead heat. On a generic ballot question—which party do you intend to vote for?—the GOP has gone from down 12 points to dead even since November. Independents defected in droves from the GOP in 2006 and 2008, but today only one third of them view Obama's handling of health care favorably.
He says "the time for bickering is over." Presidents of both parties disparage as mere bickering all inconvenient arguments about what government can and should do. Americans "didn't send us here to bicker," said George Herbert Walker Bush, in the first 15 minutes of America's most recent one-term presidency.
© 2009

Wednesday, September 09, 2009

I'm the Decider!

As of this date 9-9-09 i will make decisions easily. This article inspired me......

I’m the Decider! How to Overcome Indecisiveness


To say that I’m indecisive is putting it mildly—to admit that it’s one of my defining characteristics is much more accurate. In fact, I just spent a good chunk of time sitting here, struggling to decide how to start this story. I’ve infuriated countless family members and friends with my inability to choose everything from restaurants to movies to my next steps in life. It’s frustrating, embarrassing, and I’m officially over it.
Rather than continue buckling from the pressure of choice, I’m making an important decision—no more indecisiveness! And since most people struggle with this issue on some level—just try asking a group of friends what they feel like doing on a Friday night—I know there are quite a few out there who could benefit from making that same decision. But to overcome indecisiveness, we need to acknowledge and move past what causes it in the first place: fear.
When Weighing Options Weighs Us Down
Ultimately, what prevents us from making decisions is anxiety over making the wrong decision, of experiencing regret, of missing out on something better. So we agonize over every choice, weighing our options and researching as much as we can so that our decision is an educated, calculated one, which we think minimizes the risk of future disappointment. This might be a practical idea when shopping for big-ticket items like cars or trying to decide whether to change careers, but some of us transfer that process to matters of minor consequence, like deciding what to have for dinner. And even though we think going over each option in our head is the surest way to make the most optimal choice, giving so much thought to what we don’t end up choosing just increases the chances of buyer’s remorse.
A Tale of Two Types: Satisficers and Maximizers
In a 2004 issue of Scientific American, Barry Schwartz, a professor at Swarthmore College, wrote an article called “The Tyranny of Choice.” In it, he argues that the plethora of choices afforded to most members of prosperous societies has actually led to higher rates of depression. In other words, the fact that we have so much to choose from in the U.S.—which many of us indecisive folks see as a good thing—is causing serious blows to our overall happiness.

thoughts

There are so many thoughts running through my head these days- kind of like a to do list with just my daily deep thinking. My church, Christ Church is having small group classes and we are learning about the life of Jesus. The book we are reading and reviewing is called The Jesus I Never Knew by Phillip Yancy. Interesting since i have not ever really officially studied the bible or been in an organized book discussion. In the past I have read many passages of the Bible but never intensely studied religion or the life of Jesus. Dr. Dave Collings is the pastor and i like his teachings. They make me think (for long periods of time) about how we are to follow Jesus. We have always been religious as a family but have not belonged to a church since we left Delray Beach, Florida, over 11 years ago. Rev. Jim and our church family were one 0f a kind, & we have just not found that kind of church since moving back to Ohio.I am enjoying Christ Church for the diverse group of people. They are warm and caring. The reason i go there is because i feel that the lessons have influenced me to be a better person. I feel better about myself. Thank you Jesus!

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Going thru the portal...

Last Saturday Mike and I had a house party to celebrate our turning 50 this year. We had lots of friends and family join us to enjoy our life so far. Going thru the portal (as Amy calls it) is a right of passage into the second half of my life. Some hold on for dear life and refuse to go thru and some dive in head first. I'm going head first! Tomorrow, June 26th is my big day! I will enjoy my family and head out to dinner at Lola with friends. Tomorrow starts the second half of my life. Yes!!!

Oliver



LIVE is the center of OLIVER. Oliver Lewis lived. He did not wrestle with daily life. He played in it. While he was punctual, often he seemed unaware of time. He floated. Never distant, his focus was in front of him. Photography, friendship, exercise – each was something to embrace with good humor and complete focus. Oliver took his camera eveywhere. As the youngest of 6 children, he may have decided to let his lens be his mouth.

While Oliver’s photos speak for themselves and while Oliver would never wish to be the focus of these images, it is important for me to focus on his name. To LIVE – to embrace the silence, the cacophony, the ethereal beauties of the world – this is Oliver and his photography.

This book gives a glimpse of Oliver’s living journey. With a few exceptions, the photos were taken in the 18 months preceding Oliver’s death. There are a host of images Oliver certainly would have left out. I have included them because I feel they may speak to you. Oliver would likely say only a few of the images in this book were “pretty good.” However, he would say all of them are “cool.” He would say it slowly with a wry smile.

These images are the paintings Oliver drew with his eye and his soul. Some photos are absolute artwork. Some are explosions of color and natural power while others magnify the minutia at our fingertips. All of them reflect Oliver’s nature and his love for the natural world.

If there is any particular message Oliver might have shared through his photography, I will attempt to suggest it is the following:

The earth is a sublime, sacred seed. It is infinitely more powerful than any machine. Like the corrosive power of water on rock over generations, we can destroy the resilient earth and therefore ourselves. Birds nesting in Saguaro Cacti will soon be homeless when subdivisions rise from the Sonoran Desert – a desert whose aquifers will soon run dry. The lakes in the high peaks of the Adirondack Mountains, long ago drowned in acid rain, are unable to support basic aquatic life. We have lost our balance.

Oliver lived in his own world and loved to share the peacefulness of that world with others. He was a great teacher, often excitedly telling fact filled stories during slide-shows of his work. He taught me how to look at colors and angles from an entirely different point of view. Watching his hands, you could see him study something as he held it. Oliver once said to me, “you just have to go to the desert in the Spring, get off the highway 50 yards, and look carefully. You will see incredible life in the heart of a desolate landscape.”

To all who were lucky enough to know him well, Oliver was an intuitive inspiration. I hope you open and share this book often. Since childhood, it has been my feeling that in death, as in life, a person’s spirit has a butterfly effect on the world.

James Oliver Lewis is a butterfly whose wings will forever bring warm winds.

- John Lewis


Friday, April 24, 2009

a fine day

a fine day
all around the block
sun shining, warm breezes
mowers mowing on April 23rd
friday all day long
pizza party tonight with
family returning from sunny florida!

Friday, January 09, 2009

Something Good

these are good days, and i am grateful and thankful for many things.
so here is a list of things that I am thankful for right now:

my family that loves me unconditionally
being happily married to the love of my life
being forgiven for the crazy things I do
a warm and safe place to live
the togetherness of my family
playing spades
my sons constant need to be close to me
light in the dark
good books
knitting & crocheting
Jesus
my reliable van
being able to buy or make gifts for the ones I love
bliss
thinking forward
peaceful mornings
sleeping
kidding
jokes
quote of the day
happy relationships

Monday, June 30, 2008

Peek-a-Boob

Macy's dressing room was under construction, so I was directed to the children's section to try on undergarments. It was my time to make my yearly purchase of a few bras to last me through the next 12 months. Sometimes i become uncomfortable with the ritual of trying on so many and the sighs that go with it. This year was no different. I now wear a D cup, up from last year... One thing about bras is that as you wear for several months, they stretch and conform to your body in a way that you don't really know that its happening so you dont know that you are gaining weight or getting bigger. Ugh... I am grateful it is over and I bought 2 very flattering Maidenform bras.

I was just wondering why the larger the bra the less sexy they are & the less colorful???