The best advice was from myself: There's not one right way to do things. The people who are the most judgmental are the ones who aren't comfortable with the choices they've made. I've come to learn this, and it makes me a less judgmental person on a day-to-day basis. And I like that. Even my friends have a big expanse of views.
Our guilt comes from inflated expectations. Every day, at least in our own heads, we fall short of the goals that we've set for ourselves. And that makes us feel bad. Each day we wake up, run around all day, & then go to sleep with an endless litany of shouldas, wouldas, couldas, and have-to's. As a result we live in our shortcomings, in a state of constant regret. So... do what we do and keep up the best we can and stop regretting. My house is in an ok order and thats all there is to it.
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